感谢主！带领我来到这里，看了"最好的礼物乃是真正明白神的心意"这篇文章，真的很受益。这段时间，因着和男朋友闹得很厉害，我们半个多月也没有联系了，然后也祷告他是不是神为我预备的，我祷告神说“主啊，要是他在什么什么时候，打电话或发短信给我，我就知道这是神的美意”，但是他什么也没做，我们依然没有联系，圣经看到腓利门书15节“他暂时的离开，是为着永远的得着他”，我又想，是不是我想太多了。然后主内短信又看到，“若不是耶和华建造房屋，建造的人就枉然劳力。若不是耶和华看守城池，看守的人就枉然警醒。”我又想， 他可能不是神为我预备的，也有弟兄说，“你可以去找他，因为婚姻并不是每个人都有带领的”我就这样摇摆不定，不知道神的美意到底是怎样！神似乎也沉默了！一直在想着他是不是神为我预备的这个问题，想着想着，有时开心，有时很失落。

     看了“最好的礼物乃是真正明白神的心意”我明白了，神原来是让我学习等待这门功课，谢谢主！就求主来带领吧，不要按人的意思，乃是按神的意思来带领

     这首等待之歌的歌词很棒

等待之歌

Desperately, helplessly, longingly, I cried;
Quietly, patiently, lovingly, God replied.
I pled and I wept for a clue to my fate...
and the Master so gently said,"Wait."

我又失望、又无助、又热切地哭泣
神却安静、耐心、慈爱地回答
我争辩，我抽泣，想要一个命运的答案
我的主却温柔地说，"等待"

"Wait? you say wait?" my indignant reply.
"Lord, I need answers, I need to know why!"
Is your hand shortened? Or have you not heard?
By faith I have asked, and I'm claiming your Word.

"等待？你说等待？"我气愤地回答
"主啊，我需要答案，我要知道为什么！"
是你忙不过来吗？还是你没有听见？
凭着信心我向你求告，我也有你的话语为证

My future and all to which I relate
hangs in the balance and you tell me to Wait?"
I'm needing a 'yes', a go-ahead sign.
Or even a 'no,' to which I'll resign.
You promised, dear Lord, that if we believe,
We need but to ask, and we shall receive.
Lord, I've been asking, and this is my cry:
I'm weary of asking! I need a reply.

我的未来和我的一切
都悬于一线，你却告诉我等待？
我需要一个"是"，一个向前的信号
或者一个"不"，那我就可以放弃努力
你答应过，亲爱的主，只要信
我们祈求就会得到
主啊，我一直在向你求告，这就是我的哭求
不断求告使我厌烦！我需要一个答复。

Then quietly, softly, I learned of my fate
as my Master replied again, "Wait."
So I slumped in my chair, defeated and taut,
and grumbled to God, "So, I'm waiting...for what?"
He seemed then to kneel, and His eyes met with mine...
and He tenderly said, "I could give you a sign.
I could shake the heavens and darken the sun.
I could raise the dead and cause mountains to run.

安静地、柔和地，我知道自己的命运
因为我的主再次回答，"等待"
我跌坐在椅子里，失败又紧张
我向上帝抱怨，"啊，要我等啊...究竟等什么呢？"
这时他似乎弯下了腰，他的眼睛和我对视
他温柔地说，"我可以给你一个奇迹
我可以摇动天，也可以让太阳变黑
我可以让死人复活，也可以让大山跑动。

I could give all you seek and pleased you would be.
You'd have what you want, but you wouldn't know Me.
You'd not know the depth of My love for each saint.
You'd not know the power that I give to the faint.
You'd not learn to see through clouds of despair;
you'd not learn to trust just by knowing I'm there.
You'd not know the joy of resting in Me
when darkness and silence are all you can see.

我可以给你所要的一切，你就会很快乐
你会得到你想要的，但你却不会了解我
你不会知道我对每个圣徒的爱有多深
你也不知道我给软弱的人的力量有多大
你学不会在失望的阴云中看到希望
你也学不会仅仅因知道我的同在而信任我
当你在除了黑暗和寂静之外什么也看不到时
你也不知道在我里面休息的喜乐

You'd never experience the fullness of love
when the peace of My spirit descends like a dove.
You would know that I give, and I save, for a start,
But you'd not know the depth of the beat of My heart.
The glow of My comfort late into the night,
the faith that I give when you walk without sight.
The depth that's beyond getting just what you ask
From an infinite God who makes what you have last.

当我的灵像鸽子一样降临时
你永远不会经历爱之丰富
你知道我赐予，我拯救，但那只是开始
可你不知道我心跳动的频率
我的舒适持续到深夜
在你看不见时我给你的信心
永恒的主创造你，给你持续的生命
他的深邃远超过得到你想要的一切

You'd never know should your pain quickly flee,
what it means that My grace is sufficient for thee.
Yes, your dearest dreams overnight would come true,
but oh, the loss if I lost what I'm doing in you.
So, be silent, my child, and in time you will see
that the greatest of gifts is to truly know me.
And though often My answers seem terribly late,
My most precious answer of all is still "WAIT".

如果你的苦恼飞快过去
你就不会明白"我的恩典够你用"
是的，你的梦想可以一夜成真
可是，我在你里面正在作的工会失去
所以，安静下来吧，我的孩子，时候来到时你就明白
最好的礼物乃是真正明白我的心意
虽然我的答复经常很迟才到
我最宝贵的答案却总是"等待"

       感谢主！也请有感动的弟兄姐妹为我代祷，愿主纪念你们！